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Ultimately the bond of all companionship, wheather in marriage or in friendship, is conversation, and conversation must have a common basis, and between two people of wildely different culture the only common basis possible is the lowest level.
归根结底一切人际交往的纽带，不管是婚姻还是友谊，都是交谈，而交谈必须有一个共同的基础。如果双方的文化教养迥异，那唯一可能的共同基础只能建立在最低的层面上。
——王尔德《自深深处》
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